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Dear Uncle Ezra, I saw that the A.D. White Library in Uris was closed the other
morning "for CNN filming." WHat was CNN filming and when will it
screen?
- a faithful studier in A.D. White
Dear Faithful Studier, According to the folks at Uris Reference, the CNN filming was an
interview with Professor Theodore Lowi, John L. Senior Professor of
American Institutions. It will air October 20th, at 10pm. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 2 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Confidential to "Nervous in Class": I think you should trust that your professor will act in a
responsible fashion. If you have evidence that this is not happening,
you can call or write to Dean of Faculty Peter Stein (PCS1@Cornell.edu;
255-4843) with the particulars, and he'll look into it.
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Dear Uncle Ezra, I hate Computer Science! I hate Computer Science! I hate Computer Science! I hate Computer Science! I don't understand it! Why do we have to take this moronic
course?? I have about 2 hours left to finish a program! I don't know
what I'm doing!!!! I hate this course!!
Arrrrrrgh!
Dear Uncle Ezra, Well, I'm sitting here in Carpenter pretending to write a program
for CS 100. (Actually, I'm not even pretending anymore-I'm just
sitting here reading Uncle Ezra's Wonderful Words of Wisdom). Oh,
well, it looks like the CS 100 guy just got here, so now I can get
some help.
Engineer not enjoying CS
Dear Uncle Ezra, Where can I get tutoring for CS 100? Especially with this rotten
prelim coming up.
Engineer
Dear Fans of Computer Science (Not!), Thanks for speaking up about how tough you're finding CS 100 (and
possibly other Computer Science courses) this semester. I'll pass
that information along to staff in an academic support group that
meets regularly to discuss how to better meet students' academic
needs, so that there can be changes made in the course itself if needs
be.
In the meantime, the difference between surviving (though
preferring to procrastinate) and feeling like you're going nuts lies
in taking advantage of tutoring and other academic support services
available. The Carpenter lab consultants, grad T.A.s, and office
hours with instructors for CS 100 are listed on the handout you
received in class the first day. If you misplaced the sheet in the
onslaught of semester's-start information (which is easy to do!), you
can pick up another in the Mac lab in Carpenter hall. There's support
for other computer science courses as well; ask the folks in the main
administrative office (4130 Upson Hall; 255-7316) to help you find
it. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 4 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, just wanted to tell you I'm the one who wrote in in a blue funk
about CS100. As of now it's looking slightly better. I took the first
prelim and found to my surprise that I was doing rather well. I think
I came out around a good solid B. Not great but not bad either. I'd
still appreciate any information you can give me on tutoring
available.
Somewhat Less Stressed
Dear Looking Up, Good for you! You'll find both companionship and support advice
in the set of computer science questions above. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 5 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, Why am I the only one in my class who is totally lost?
TL
Dear Lost in Class, What a scary, lonely feeling, believing you're the only one who
can't keep up! While I can't tell whether or not you're as alone as
you feel without knowing you or the class, I can tell that you feel
miserable right now and wish you could catch on like you see other
people doing. And I can assure you that Cornell can be one very tough
place and that LOTS of other students feel like they're floundering
this semester... you only need to read the letters posted here to see
the common thread.
That doesn't mean, however, that you need to go on feeling lost.
The Ezra Pointer to Acadmic Services on the main "Dear Uncle Ezra"
lists eight support services, some campus-wide and some specific to
individual departments. If you look at them and don't know where to
begin, I suggest that you call the folks at the Learning Skills Center
(255-6310), explain which class you're having trouble with, and ask
where they'd recommend you go for help. Or you can talk with your
professor or T.A. about how hard you're finding the class...I'm sure
it won't be the first time they've heard about such difficulties! Or
you can write back to me with the course name and number, and I'll be
more than happy to track down services that match your need. You can
also write just to vent, and I'll be here to listen. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 6 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
dear uncle ezra, if you die do your parents receive a refund mine are paying alot of
money
on the edge of the bridge
Dear On the Edge, If you die, the last thing in the world your parent would be
thinking about would be a refund of money. Your life is
irreplaceable.
But when you get so down and discouraged that jumping off the
bridge looks like a way out, there almost always IS something that
needs to die, something that's standing in the way of your happiness.
That "something" may have to do with the strain of keeping up with
horrendous classes, or a big loss like breaking up with a lover or
best friend, or a feeling of meaninglessness about your life's
direction, or a number of other difficult situations that you can't
yet see your way through. No matter what the situation, though,
you've got options other than jumping. Please write in more detail
about what you're going through so I can help you find them...or call
the folks at Suicide Prevention and Crisis Service (272-1616, all day
and all night), Psychological Services (ground floor Gannett; 255-5208
from 8:30am-4:30pm Monday through Friday and 255-5155 afterhours), or
one of the other resources listed on the main "Dear Uncle Ezra" menu
under the Ezra Pointer to Personal Counseling Services. You've
already reached out to me (and I assure you that I'm a very real
person who cares about what you're telling me, even if computers are
our only medium for "talking"), so you know you don't have to through
this pain alone. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 7 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, If we send you our email addresses, do you ever do things like look
up who we are? For instance, if someone wrote you who was seriously
suicidal, would you do something like find out who this person was so
that you could make sure he got help?
Worried
P.S. I am NOT suicidal...I just used that as an example.
P.P.S. This is not a pressing concern...I was just wondering.
Dear Uncle Ezra, If someone who was seriously suicidal or doing something against
the law or something like that wrote you a letter and gave their email
address, would you do something like call the police to make sure they
were OK? I have heard of things happening like someone calls in to a
supposedly confidential thing and a gives student ID number or
something like that and a few days later they're arrested. You
wouldn't do something like that would you Unk?
Suspicious
Dear Wondering and Suspicious, I wonder what -- besides curiosity -- is behind your questions?
If you're unsure about whether or not to share identifying information
in a particular situation, I'd be happy to poke around the edges of
the issues with you until you figure out how much to share or not to
share.
My policy -- which holds true for most personal support services
on campus -- is NOT to release any personal information unless a)
given explicit permission by a writer or b) in a life-or-death case in
which I might be able to save someone's life. Given the fact that I'm
writing over the computer, it's unlikely that I'd have the immediacy
and needed information to take this step.
Please remember that anyone has the option of staying completely
anonymous when writing to me, as each of you has done. I don't hear
your voice or see your face (although sometimes I wish I could!), so
in general, there's no safer resource around. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 8 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, If you are in Arts and Sciences, can you do a double major where
one is an independent major and one a traditional major? And can you
do something like group courses in the Ag school to form an
Independent major? I am a Government major aiming for Law school, and
I would like to know if it is possible to group Communications courses
as an independent major.
Sincerely yours,
Hopeful Lawyer
Dear Hopeful Lawyer, Yes, you can have a traditional plus an independent major.
However, the answer to your second question is likely a "no", since
your independent major in A&S can't be met with courses solely in
A&LS. Out of the 120 credits needed to graduate, you must complete at
least 100 in Arts and Sciences.
I suggest that you take as many courses in Communication as you
can without worrying about meeting specific major requirements. That
way, you can pick and choose those which are most relevant to your
interests. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 9 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, Why is the food service closed down during Fall Break? Surely there
are enough employees staying over to keep at least one open. I would
walk to anywhere on Campus - I'd just like to use my meal plan.
Penniless
Dear Uncle Ezra, Why is Dining closed over Fall Break? I pay enough to come here. I
can't afford to buy food over Fall and Thanksgiving. It looks as
though I'm just going to not eat.
Already feeling Hungry
Dear Penniless and Already Hungry, I forwarded your questions to Peggy Beach, Associate Director of
Campus Life (mjb15@Cornell.edu), who replies: "You are correct. Meal
plan does not include the recess periods of fall break, Thanksgiving,
Winter Interesession, and spring break. The majority of students
leave campus during these breaks, and if we included break periods in
the meal plan we would be charging students for meals they neither
want nor would use. I believe you will find this is true on most
campuses.
"So eat hearty at the last meal before break (lunch on Saturday,
October 12, at Robert Purcell Dining)! Meal plan begins again on
Tuesday, October 15, with dinner at Jansen's, RPD, and Okenshield's."
Thanks, Peggy! Here's a list of dining units that are open during
break; all will accept cash, CornellCard, and Big Red Bucks:
IVY ROOM
Mon. 10/14 7am-7:30pm
Tues. 10/15 7am-10pm
TRILLIUM
Mon., Tues. 7am-3:30pm
MARTHA'S
Mon., Tues. 7-10:30am, 11am-2pm
THEORY CENTER
Mon., Tues. 7am-2pm
BIOTECH
Mon., Tues. 7:30am-2pm
MALOTT
Mon., Tues. 7am-2:30pm
BIG RED BARN
Mon., Tues. 8am-2pm
ALFALFA ROOM
Mon., Tues. 7:30am-3pm." Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 10 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle, My ex boyfriend and I have decided to stay friends after we broke
up. Lately we've been getting into a lot of fights. Yesterday we got
into a huge fight and he pushed me to the ground -- hard. I'm pretty
sure he didn't mean to do it but what if we continue fighting and he
does it again? I care a lot about him. We both understand that we
don't want to get back together, and we both want to stay friends. Is
it worth it?
Getting Worried
Dear Fighting, That must have been a scary moment! Pushing someone forcefully
in an argument is not normal or acceptable behavior. Although a lot
depends on how your ex responded afterwards -- did he apologize? walk
away? blame you? -- you still have reason to be concerned.
According to Nina Cummings in the Health Education Office at
Gannett, research shows that when someone has been physically violent
once, they're likely to resort to it again. Even if they didn't mean
it, it's likely that they don't have enough other resources to capture
the force of their emotions. Also, once someone resorts to violence,
there's a good possibility that the violence will escalate.
Nina recommends that since you've already broken up (so that
there's not quite so much at stake as there would be if you were still
a couple), that you take some time off and not see each other for
awhile. After you've each had a longer chance to sort out your
feelings independent from each other, you'll be better able to decide
whether to remain friends or make a complete break. If you'd like to
discuss your options in more depth, you can reach Nina at 255-4782 or
NC18@Cornell.edu.
Thanks, Nina! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 11 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear
Uncle
Ezra, Where
is
a
place
where
I
can
meet
people?
signed,
Not
Enough
Friends
Dear Not Enough Friends, Some of these potential friends are already around you, awaiting
the time and patience required to build a friendship. By showing
consistent interest and caring to the people you meet in your classes,
the dining halls, your dorm or apartment, you can strike up some
amazing friendships without even realizing their significance until
weeks later.
But if you need more contexts in which to meet people, your best
bet is joining a club or other campus group focused on an activity you
love. Then you'll already have something in common (above and beyond
Cornell itself) with everyone you meet there! A tantalizing array of
campus organizations are listed at this Web site:
. Browse until you
find ones that appeal to you.
If you want to talk to someone about your loneliness, the EARS
peer counselors (211 WSH; 255-EARS) will be glad to listen, and, if
needed, steer you towards further resources. Their services are free
and confidential. Also, don't hesitate to ask your friends and family
members in other places for extra support right now, until you feel
more at home here. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 12 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, What's the deal with hockey season tickets? I'm a freshman and I
got a thing in the mail this summer to buy them. I sent in a check,
and now what am I supposed to do. I hear people talking about line
numbers and stuff. What are they talking about?
Rink Rat Wannabe
Dear Hockey Fan, Call or stop by the Athletic Ticket Office in the Field House
(255-7333). The staff there will be able to tell you if your check
was received and anything else you want to know about Cornell hockey
but didn't know who to ask. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 13 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, My friends and I have decided to get out of Ithaca this year for
fall break and go to Canada for a few days (we'll probably visit
Niagra Falls and Toronto). Unfortunately, we'll probably get there on
a Saturday morning and all the banks will be closed, preventing us
from exchanging money at reasonable rates (I know hotels and merchants
are happy to take US$ at a huge discount). I was just wondering if
you could point us towards any banks in the Ithaca area that sell
Canadian currency at reasonable exchange rates.
Thanks,
Road Tripper
Dear Road Tripper, That sounds like a delightful way to spend break! I imagine you
standing by the Niagra Falls overlook, letting the pounding of the
water wash away all the stress of the semester....
The folks at the Information and Referral Center
(info@Cornell.edu) did some research on your behalf and found that the
following banks provide foreign currency at reasonable exchange
rates:
Tompkins County Trust Company 273-3210
M & T Bank 277-2988
You may have to call each bank to request a specific amount of
currency. Happy road trip! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 14 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, IN December '91 you said oral sex was dangerous during
menstruation. Why?
?????
Dear Concerned, I forwarded your letter to Sharon Dittman, HIV/AIDS Coordinator
in Health Education at Gannett (sd15@Cornell.edu; 255-4782), who
replies:
"HIV can be transmitted if the blood (including menstrual blood),
semen, vaginal secretions, or breast milk of an infected person comes
into direct contact with the bloodstream or mucus membranes of an
uninfected person. In oral sex with a woman who is menstruating, a
person runs the risk of contact between the mucous membrances of the
mouth and the infected menstrual blood, as well as vaginal secretions,
of the partner.
"Although oral sex appears to be lower risk than vaginal and anal
intercourse, it is not NO RISK, especially when blood is present. To
reduce your risk when having oral sex:
"1. Don't brush your teeth or floss before or after oral sex.
Bleeding gums or gum problems make oral sex riskier.
"2. Use a dental dam (a square of latex material), a condom cut
lengthwise, or plastic wrap as a barrier between the mouth and the
vulva, vaginal area, and anus to reduce the risk of exposure to
possibly infected blood and vaginal secretions.
"3. Use a latex condom for fellatio (mouth to penis contact) to
reduce the risk of exposure to semen."
Thanks, Sharon! If you are asking because you have had
unprotected oral sex with a woman who was menstruating, you should get
tested for the HIV antibody. You can call Sharon at 255-4782 or the
folks at CGSS (Contraception, Gynecology, and Sexuality Services;
Gannett Level Six; 255-3978) for information; feel free to do so
anonymously if you wish. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 15 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, What's the story with the stir fry guy at Okenshields. I've heard
a lot of stories about him, but I can't decide what is true.
Figured You'd Know
Dear Mystified, Without knowing what stories you've heard, it's hard to separate
fact from fiction! Did you perhaps hear that the stir-fry cook hails
from China and guards his delectable stir-fry recipe even from his
co-workers? Then you'll be interested in reading Q03 in the 2/27/96
"Dear Uncle Ezra" posting. If you heard something else you'd like
clarified, you'll have to fill me in on the details! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 16 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, My boyfriend graduated from Cornell last year and now attends NYU
Law. What is the CHEAPEST means of getting to NYC throughout the
year? Penny-Pincher
Dear Eager to Visit, You must miss each other terribly...good thing NYC isn't TOO far
away! Other than the ride board, which usually provides inexpensive
and fun arrangements, Shortline's weekend bus service is the cheapest
way. You can reach the Shortline staff at 277-8800 for more
information. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 17 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, okay, so i know cornell milk comes from cornell cows, and cornell
apple juice comes from cornell apples, but what about cornell beef in
the dining halls? it might sound like a silly question, but i
initially thought of it in a serious mood and only then realized that
it could be a bad joke. although, i suppose there really wouldn't be
anything wrong with it... also, how many of those glasses used in the dining halls are there
campus-wide? thousands? tens of thousands? hundreds of thousands?
in a food mood...
Dear In a Food Mood, I shared your questions with Peggy Beach at Campus Life
(mjb15@Cornell.edu), who says that to the best of her knowledge,
Cornell does not raise beef cows with the intent to sell. Dining and
Retail Services procures meat products for the dining halls from a
local vendor.
Peggy also found out that among the five co-op operations (Robert
Purcell, Jansen's, Okenshields, Balch, and Risley), there are roughly
15,000 co-op glasses. That gives you new appreciation for the folks
who load them into the dishwashers, doesn't it? Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 18 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, I have to spend one month at New York this Fall and I am very
intersted in some courses on TEASL (teaching english as second
language) and if it is possible a short course on something related
with human resource development in the enterprises. Could you send me
some information or how I can obtain information on it? Thank you in
advance and I am sorry for my English. (I am working for United
Nations System)
Regards,
Roberto
Dear Roberto, You're welcome! I asked Jerry Wilcox, Director of Cornell's
International Students and Scholars Office (ISSO; jdw3@Cornell.edu;
607/255-5243) about TEASL courses in New York City. He replies:
"I am not clear about your question. If you mean that you are
interested in learning English and want to participate in an Intensive
English program, I suggest you use the library collection across from
the United Nations in the Institute of International Education (IIE)
at 809 United Nations Plaza. This organization publishes a guide to
English language programs for people who want to learn English. The
name of the Guide is English Language and Orientation Programs in the
United States, published by the Institute of International Education.
"Or, if you mean that you are interested in learning how to teach
English as a Second Language, very few short courses exist. I don't
know of any list. You could check The College Handbook published by
the College Board organization. This series lists the location of
colleges and universities and one of the volumes is organized by major
fields of study, such as teaching English as a Second Language. Check
the New York public library or try the library at IIE."
Thanks, Jerry! As for a course on human resource development in
the enterprises, I suggest you check with the staff at some of the
colleges and universities in the New York area, like Columbia and
NYU. Have a wonderful, educational trip! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 19 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Hi Ezra, I have an engineering question for you: Now that the speed limits
have been raised across most of the US, there's a lot of hand-wringing
about how our fuel consumption is going to rise. Now, I can
understand that accelerating to 75 mph takes a lot more gas than
accelerating to 55, but what about maintaining a "cruising" speed? I
can't think of any logical reason why it would take significantly more
gas per unit distance to maintain 75 mph than to maintain 55. (I also
just returned from a 600 mile round trip thru NM, CO and WY driving
mostly 75-80 and didn't see any obvious difference in my fuel
consumption from previous trips where I was driving 65-70). Can you get me some hard numbers for the following scenario: How
much more gas does it take to accelerate to 75 mph and drive for 100
miles on an interstate (assuming light traffic conditions), compared
to the same trip at 55 mph?
Thanks a lot,
Becky
Dear Becky, I forwarded your reply to Professor Al George (arg2@Cornell.edu),
who is very involved in automotive research in Mechanical and
Aerospace Engineering. From his sabbatic at Harley-Davidson, he
graciously replies: "Acceleration and braking are important only for
start and stop driving where speed limit doesn't matter...but the
weight of the car does! The power required at above about 50 mph is
very roughly proportional to the velocity cubed, V**3; or, looking at
it another way, force is proportional to V**2. Then work is force
times distance, so getting energy to move the same distance is
proportional to V**2 times distance. So (if we ignore the higher
efficiency of an angine at higher power at 75 mph), energy consumed is
(75/55)**2 higher or 1.85 times higher. In practice it is less than
that because of various factors such as engine efficiency, rolling
resistance, etc. -- things you can learn in MAE 386, presently taught
by Professor Lumley each spring term."
Thanks, Professor George! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 20 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra: I have a problem with my hands and feet being perpetually sweaty.
I have no clue why this is so, but it has been an ongoing occurrence
ever since I was a kid. Not only is it kind of embarrassing to have
to shake people's hands when mine is drenched in my own sweat, but it
also interferes with my ability to do certain sports (harder to get a
good grip on a racket, etc.), to take tests (the paper gets drenched
in my own sweat), to print out papers (I have an ink-jet printer, and
if I'm not careful, just touching my papers can make the letters run)
and otherwise causes quite an inconvenience. I was wondering if you
knew what this condition might be and if there was anything I could do
about it besides constantly wiping my hands on my jeans. Thanks!
-- Clammy and wet
Dear Clammy and Wet, That sounds like quite a nuisance! Have you looked into possible
medical problems? Since an endocrine imbalance can cause excessive
sweat, you can start by getting your thyroid checked. The medical
staff at Gannett can do this for you; just call the Appointment Desk
at 255-6958 to schedule a time. If your thyroid isn't the culprit,
then the Gannett medical staff can check out other possibilities with
you. If all goes well, you'll be rewarded by a restored sports grip,
smear-free papers, and a dry handshake...which seems worth the time
and effort! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 21 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, I've heard he has a PhD in engineering, I've heard he owns a chain
of restaurants and does this for free, I've heard a lot.
Still Figure You'll Find Out
Dear Heard A Lot, I checked out your stories with Eileen Hughes, Willard Straight
Dining Chef (emh11@Cornell.edu; 255-5338), who says, "In reply to the
inquisitive minds that want to know the whole truth about our
illustrious stir-fry genius: Hsi Wang is his name and he has his
Masters Degree in Food Science from the University of Idaho, Moscow;
and he is a PhD candidate at Cornell University in Bio-Chemistry. He
was a restaurant owner of two establishments: one the Golden Dragon
and the other, Peking. His presence is worth far more than we could
ever afford, but he loves Willard Straight and all of you that come
through his lines. We of course pay him, but the amount is between
him and me. He is the BEST."
What a marvelous (and well-deserved!) affirmation. Thanks,
Eileen! Uncle Ezra |