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Uncle Ezra-
I like the fact that Cornell students are able to use net print in
the campus labs to laser print papers, etc. However, I have a real
complaint about the process - - every time you print anything, a cover
page is also printed with your net ID and your current balance. I
think it's a great idea to print this extra page the first time you
print, to be sure that you're using the correct net ID, etc. But, is
it really necessary to print it EVERY SINGLE TIME a page is printed?
It would be great if we could have the option of printing this page,
but it shouldn't be automatically printed. I realize that many of
these pages (hopefully) get recycled right in the labs, but it's still
a huge waste of trees. Since I'm majoring in an environmental area, I
must say that I'm quite bothered. Do you know if there's any way this
system can be changed?
unsigned
Dear Unsigned, I'm heartened to know that people like you have an eye out for
improvements to prevent environmental waste. I shared your letter
with Judy Hyman in ATS Technology Training Services (jh21@Cornell.edu;
255-6088), who replies: "Thanks very much for your letter. I hope the
following information about Net-Print, its history, and ideas under
current consideration regarding the Net-Print cover page is helpful to
you.
"Begun in 1996 to replace the old Vendacard system (which cost
$.15 per page and required people to bring their documents on a
diskette to the single computer that was directly hooked up to the
printer), Net-Print will become a full production service center in
September 1998. Usage statistics show us that over the last two years
Net-Print has gained great acceptance, with as many as 11,000 pages
printed per day compared with 10,000 pages maximum per month on
Vendacard.
"Over the course of this pilot project we have gathered
information about enhancements and refinements which might further the
success of this service. The Net-Print cover page is one such topic
under discussion.
"Net-Print cover pages were instituted to make clear the
beginning and end of a print job. This is particularly important when
a user prints remotely and is unable to retrieve the print job
immediately. However, even when users are close to the printer, print
jobs get confused and lost much more frequently when there is no cover
page. This is especially true when many students are working on the
same assignment at once. On the other hand, there are clearly
occasions when a cover page might be wasteful, e.g., if a user is
close to the printer and prints a one-page document repeatedly.
"In an effort to retain the useful aspects of the cover page and
simultaneously minimize waste, we are looking at several possible
solutions to this problem including optional cover pages. Because we
make every effort to keep the product consistent throughout the
academic year, such changes would be implemented for fall '98.
"We very much appreciate hearing your views and welcome
suggestions you might have. Please note that we are looking at adding
a feedback link at the bottom of the Net-Print page so that you can
send your views directly to those who deliver the service."
Thanks, Judy! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 2 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
DUE, Is it okay to wear silver in the shower, like a silver necklace
etc. I'm not a chem major and I think that it will cause it to
tarnish.
jewel
Dear Jewel, According to a staff person at Schooley's Jewelers on the
Commons, the silver will most certainly tarnish if worn in the shower
or bath. The rate at which it will tarnish depends on the chemicals
in the water in your residence. Protect your sterling! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 3 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, Is there any such thing as randomness? I'll clarify a bit... if
you roll dice, that is pretty random because the results are
unpredictable. But it's not completely random because if you tilt
your hand the same way and release with the same force and do
everything the same as that spin, you'll get exactly the same
results. If it were truly random, doing the same exact thing should
yield different results, right? Thanks.
Unsigned
Dear Random Skeptic, Persi Diaconis, a Visiting Professor in the Math Department, gave
a talk on "The Search for Randomness" and coincidences which is on
tape and available through the libraries (send an e-mail to
OKUref@cornell.edu to find out where the tape is housed) and the Math
Department (129 White Hall, 255-4013). Professor Dianconis' lecture
includes a demonstration from a coin flipper who repeatedly gets
"heads". The good professor's premise is that how random an
occurrence is depends on initial conditions.
Happy researching! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 4 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
DUE, Is the rod on top of Sage crooked? It appears to be bent in the
east direction. Or maybe it's just my eyes...
Crook
Dear Crook, Your eyes are fine...in fact, they're keener than most! When you
first wrote, Bob Stundtner, Sage Hall Project Manager
(rps2@Cornell.edu), had also noticed a bend to the rod (which to him
appeared to lean north), and he decided to have the surveyor check it
out. Bob reports: "The east/west centerline of Sage Hall nails the
finial at it's base, right on. However, the rod is off about two
inches to the north at its top. We think Crook is right about a bit
of drift to the east, too. We're not quite sure why, but intend to
find out.
"The finial is 22 feet long with 13 feet exposed. It's a 1.25
inch stainless steel rod with a two-inch bronze pipe plug welded to
it. Then decorative .5-inch bronze rods with flowers or stars at the
ends are wound around and branch off from the shaft. It was acid
etched to give it a patina.
"The finial was hand crafted by Tony Musuta, Al Konz, and Bob
Sents in the Cornell Sheetmetal Shop. Foreman Pat Redder is convinced
their finial is as straight as an arrow.
"So what could it be? The finial was threaded down through the
restored spire and bolted within it. A very tiny misalignment in the
spire where it fastens 110 feet up on the west tower probably wouldn't
catch the eye, but telescoped across the slender length of the finial
it becomes noticeable. The same could happen at the point where the
finial is bolted.
"We're running full out on the Sage project right now as we
finish up for the new occupants. That's why it took us so long to
answer Crook's inquiry. Next small break we get, we'll continue the
investigation."
We'll look forward to hearing more! Thanks, Bob! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 5 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
DUE, Is there any organization for cricket lovers/players on campus? I
love the game soooooo much and I am missing it like crazy. I have
tried to ask the appropriate people but haven't gotten any answers as
yet. I'd really love to know beacause meeting with people with a
passion for the game and, indeed, playing it would make me ever so
happy. Also, is there any place that shows international sporting
events for a whole bunch of people to watch. Unfortunately, I know no
one with cable. Thanks.
Lovin it and Missin it
Dear Lovin' It and Missin' It, Yes, by Jiminy, there is a Cricket Club at Cornell, called
"Pavilion de Bears". To get more information, contact Sidhant Jhaver
(sj41@cornell.edu) or Gautam Tankha at (gkt2@cornell.edu). By the
way, you can find out what student organizations exist on campus by
going to the main CUinfo menu, looking under "Student Life and
Activities" and then "Student Organizations", and typing in the
subject in which you're interested.
Many of the residence halls and Noyes and Robert Purcell
Community Centers have televisions with cable access. Both ESPN and
ESPN2 carry international sporting events. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 6 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, can you tell me more about how admissions selects the tradition
fellows, specifically national scholars and presidential scholars? i
am wondering just how do they choose certain few out of a tens of
thousands of applicants. is there a specific thing admissions is
looking for?
your friend from cornell
Dear Cornell Friend, Kris Minor, Associate Director for Programming at The Cornell
Tradition (107 Day Hall, 255-8525, kam2@cornell.edu), gave me some
great information to pass along to you.
The Office of the Cornell Commitment includes three
University-wide special recognition programs for undergraduates:
Cornell Tradition, Cornell Presidential Research Scholars, and Cornell
National Scholars. The programs are independent of each other but
work cooperatively. The selection process for all three programs is
similar: Applicants are nominated by members of the admissions staff,
then nominees are reviewed by a panel of faculty and staff members.
Kris says the admissions staff and review panel look for the
following activities and qualities for each of the programs:
* The Cornell Tradition's primary emphasis is on employment
experience and extracurricular activities. A student who has worked
for pay during his/her high school years while also being active in
school and community activities would be a strong Tradition
candidate.
* Cornell Presidential Scholars need to have records of
outstanding academic achievement and expressed potential for
research. Good candidates are at the top of their classes with a
rigorous course load. They've performed well on standardized tests,
and they're able to describe research experiences they have had or
would like to have. Often, Presidential Scholars have been members of
academic clubs and/or participated in independent research experiences
such as the Westinghouse competition. This program is designed to
support students who have the "fire for discovery" through research.
* Cornell National Scholars demonstrate academic and leadership
potential. Top contenders show leadership in a number of arenas or
organizations, having held such positions as class president, athletic
team captain, yearbook or newspaper editor, or chair of a service
group.
Kris adds that choosing scholars from a rich applicant pool is
always a challenge, but that the processes have consistently
identified recipients who represent the University well.
Thanks for sharing the process, Kris! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 7 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Hi Unc, I don't think I'm overweight (165cm, 60kg) but I have some extra
"baby" fat if you can call it that between my waist and my stomach.
Do you have any words of wisdom how to get rid of that fat?
Feeling weighted down by extra blubber
Dear Feeling Weighted, I forwarded your question to Sue Fine, a Fitness Coordinator in
the Physical Education Department (254-6710), who responds: "The best
plan for shedding fat from the abdominal area is the same plan that
should be followed by anyone who wants to trim up or lower total body
fat. The course of action? Incorporate regular aerobic exercise
(brisk walking, biking, dancing, jogging, swimming, aerobic classes,
etc.), strength training, and a healthy eating plan into your
lifestyle. Seek advice from a professional if you need help getting
started or if you have any health concerns. If you happen to be a
Cornell Fitness Center member, free advice is available from the
personal trainers.
"The main problem with trying to lose fat specifically from the
abdominal area is that there is no such thing as spot reducing! A
person doesn't have any more influence over WHERE fat loss will occur
on the body when trimming up, than where it will be stored when
gaining weight. This is determined mostly by your genes.
"In order to lose body fat there has to be a caloric deficit over
time. This can be done by increasing physical activity, eating fewer
calories, or both. A combination of a SLIGHT reduction in calories
and adding exercise is more successful (and healthier), than crash
dieting or binge exercising (both of which can be hazardous to your
health). If you don't eat enough, this will be counterproductive, as
your metabolic rate slows down, you may miss out on nutrients needed
for good health, and you'll lack adequate energy to be active.
"Abdominal exercises will help you get stronger and firmer in the
waist region, but will not burn fat specifically from this area.
Strength training, in general, helps to boost your metabolism since it
increases lean-muscle tissue. Strength training also helps to give a
person a leaner look by making the muscle more prominent. Doing
abdominal exercises, such as crunches and oblique/diagonal curls, will
strengthen the torso region and may give the abs a more toned or
defined look. Having strong abs will also promote better posture,
which can make the abdominal region look flatter and helps to protect
the lower back from injury. When doing ab exercises, it is important
to use good technique to isolate the abdominals and to prevent
injury.
"Many people get caught up in desiring a particular physique,
since the media bombards us with particular body images deemed
desirable to get dates, get rich, live the 'high life', etc. However,
the reality is that heredity has a huge influence on one's body type
and on where fat is stored on the body. Yes, everyone can influence
their overall shape through physical activity and eating habits, but
there are no guarantees that they will end up with the exact body that
they want. Your best bet in the long run is to incorporate healthy
eating habits and regular exercise into your lifestyle and love the
body you have."
Thanks, Sue...I think I'll go for a brisk walk now! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 8 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
DUE, I have a pair of sunglasses that found in my closet (I've been
digging out all my spring clothes since the weather's been so nice),
but I don't know if it has 100% UV protection. My guess is that most
sunglasses do, but this one isn't labelled (it might have been at one
time). But how can I check, or is there a place I can go to get UV
coating added? Thanks.
Unsigned
Dear Sunglasses Conservator, According to the staff at Sterling Optical in Pyramid Mall
(257-2333), not all sunglasses are 100 percent UV-protected. It's not
possible to "add" UV protection to a pair of glasses since UV
protection is typically applied to the lens before the glass tint is
added. If you're going to look for a new pair of glasses, buy a pair
that is "polarized" with an anti-reflective coating on the back of the
lenses. The Sterling Optical employee recommended the brand called
"Serengetti Drivers".
Have fun in the sun this season.....it *will* arrive in Ithaca
soon! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 9 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, Is it true that you can get cancer from dying your hair? I want to
temporarily dye my hair. I heard that I can get red highlights from
soaking my brown hair in green tea. Is that true? If so, how much
tea and how much water do I put in. How else can I temporarily add
color to my hair without damaging it? Thanks!
Unsigned
Dear Hair Concerns, According to the good folks at Hair Graphics North (257-5463),
there have been some studies done on mice whose coats and skin are
doused with "hair dye". These poor creatures did contract cancer, but
the stylist says they were exposed to an inordinate amount of dye
applied directly to the skin.
The Hair Graphics North employee suggests that if you would like
temporary hair color (most hair treatments are temporary, lasting from
a few weeks to four months) look for a treatment that is
"non-peroxide".
As for green tea turning your hair a nice shade of red, the
stylist advises against trying it. Depending on the exact ingredients
in the tea and the original color of your hair, you may end up with a
funkier look than you'd planned. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 10 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, This question is regarding the question on 4/2 about falling in
love with your best friend...well what do you do when your best friend
is the same sex as you and you're both not lesbians or bi?
Unsigned
Dear Loving, Much of the advice in Q16 on 4/2/98 still applies, but with an
added twist. If you're a woman and you fall in love with your best
friend who is not lesbian or bi (to the best of your knowledge), you
face some added doubts about whether your love can and will be
reciprocated. You can still take steps in that borderland between
friendship and love and respectfully gauge how she responds: backing
off if she seems fearful or offended, becoming more open about your
affection if it's well received. And at some point, just as in a
similar heterosexual encounter, you'll probably reach a point where
you need to talk in order to proceed. Then you'll need to weigh the
risk of possibly losing the friendship if you're honest about your
feelings (a shift which can happen in opposite-sex as well as same-sex
relationships) versus the relief of knowing where she stands or even
finding out she loves you, too.
When you say that "you're both not lesbians or bi", I'm not
entirely clear whether she's not and you are (my assumption above).
Perhaps you mean that NEITHER of you are: In other words, you don't
identify yourself as lesbian or bi even though you're in love with
your same-sex friend. If that's the case, maybe you've never
considered the range of feelings of which you're capable and have
narrowly defined "lesbian" and "bi" into stereotyped categories that
don't truly represent individual lesbian and bi people. You have a
perfect opportunity through this love to redefine how you feel about
your own sexuality as you break down your fears of identifying with
those labels.
Whether you're openly bi/lesbian or questioning, you can get
further support through talking with an EARS counselor (211 WSH;
255-EARS) or attending meetings of one of the student groups described
on the Cornell Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Resource website
(http://LGBRO.cornell.edu/). You'll also find plenty of related
letters in the "Dear Uncle Ezra" archives, such as Q01 in the 5/6/93
posting and Q02 on 9/2/93. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 11 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear UE, I was just wondering - who are those people whose names are on the
wall of the terrace adjoining Uris Library? Why were they chosen to
have their names there (did they give a certain amount of money)?
Love,
Niko
Dear Niko, The names which appear on the wall and planters at the Uris
Library Terrace are those of individuals who have been foremost
benefactors of the University, according to Laurie Robinson, Director
of Development. This honor is not automatic based on giving: Lots of
factors are taken into consideration, but it is primarily a
recognition of significant lifetime financial support. Individuals
are nominated to the Board of Trustees, and the Board votes to honor
them. The original idea was to recognize those individuals whose
lifetime giving reached or exceeded the level of Ezra's founding gift
of $500,000. In January '97, the Board of Trustees voted to increase
that to $1,000,000, but again, that is all subject to nomination and
approval of the Board.
If you want to learn more, you can visit the display inside Uris
Library. The folks in Development have a pamphlet they can send you
as well; you can write or call Laurie (lar8@Cornell.edu; 254-6183) to
ask to receive one. Thanks, Laurie! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 12 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Uncle Ezra: Why is it that the worst break-ups are when you both still care
about one another? How long does the pain last in such a
relationship?
A sad niece
Dear Sad Niece, When you care about your ex, you're less likely to numb out what
he or she is feeling, as people often do when they're angry or
spiteful after a break up. In your case, you're carrying pain for the
two of you, still full of tenderness which only makes your loss feel
greater.
I commend you for taking such a difficult path, which leaves your
heart open to the whole breadth of this wrenching experience. But I
also encourage you to take care of yourself so you can find some balm
for the pain. Draw closer to things and people that bring you peace
and joy -- dear friends, beauty in nature, music, a spontaneous
adventure, relaxation or meditation tapes, good literature, and
whatever else makes you glad. And find outlets for the pain through
writing, talking, praying, drawing, acting, and/or singing in contexts
that feel safe and accepting to you. It sounds to me like your love
will keep growing deeper if you do, while your grief will slowly pass
through its inevitable phases until you are able to set your sadness
to rest. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 13 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear uncle, I recently had a very disheartening experience, which once again
led me to question the red tape and bureaucracy of this institution.
When I came to Cornell as a January freshman I did not have an
ethernet card, so I signed up for a modem while I was living on campus
for spring semester. While I decided to stay in the dorm for my
second year, I realized I should buy an ethernet card to make things
easier. I even got an email asking me if I wanted to sign up for
Resnet over the web, which I did take advantage of. I figured that
signing up for resnet would automatically cancel my modem, because -
hey - who needs a modem AND an ethernet card (resnet)? Right?
WRONG. I finally realized (which I should have seen earlier) that I
have been getting charged for the modem hook-up, $11.33 per month,
PLUS Resnet fees - $82.50 per semester. When I went to CIT to
question this, I was told that there was nothing they could do about
it, and I basically lost $100-$150 dollars. Is it too much to assume
that if I did sign up for resnet, the people at CIT would realize I
don't need a modem too?! They told me that the modem department and
the Resnet department don't work together on these things......Doesn't
that seem sort of odd? And if you do need to personally cancel a
modem, why don't they send out reminders? At least in the resnet
email that everyone gets? I just think it's really sneaky and lots of
people lose money this way. Is there something to be done about
this? I am just annoyed that the money is down the drain - it's not
like I have so much of it!!!! Thanks......
slightly perturbed Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 14 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear DUE
I've heard of this air purification system that uses ozone to
"clean" the air of obnoxious odors. I was wondering if you had heard
about these units that are on the market and if you know how effective
or safe they are for use in a home. I know ozone can be dangerous at
high levels and am curious to know if it is possible that ozone can be
safely used in an enclosed environment fo human benefit without harm. Thanks.....
Inquisitive
Dear Inquisitive, I asked Jim Grieger in Environmental Health and Safety
(jrg5@Cornell.edu) for information about these air purification
systems. He replies: "Some of these ozone producing air-purifying
devices are advertised as reducing indoor contaminants through
chemical or electrostatic interaction. They have been identified to
cause problems from ozone production. Ozone is a highly reactive and
irritating gas. It has a characteristic 'electrical' odor to it.
Exposure to ozone can cause health symptoms such as respiratory
irritation, dry eyes, and sore throats. Ozone is a common component
of air pollution (photochemical smog)in urban areas and is also
produced by welding, some photocopiers, and (in nature) lightning.
Ozone can be very irritating to the respiratory system, especially in
asthmatics or other individuals with pre-existing respiratory health
conditions. There are very low exposure limits established for
ozone.
"There is an article in the March issue of APPLIED OCCUPATIONAL
AND ENVIRONMENTAL HYGIENE, a Journal of the American Conference of
Governmental Hygienists (ACGIH), describing a study by the Worker's
Compensation Board of British Columbia of two types of air purifying
devices marketed for home and office use. The units were tested for
ozone production and concentration. This study found that persons
working in close proximity to the units were at risk of being
overexposed to ozone. Their recommendation was that these units only
be used where worker exposures are carefully monitored and
controlled. The author/contact for this study is Ed Chessor, Workers'
Compensation Board of British Columbia, P.O. Box 5350, Vancouver,
British Columbia, Canada V6B 5L5; telephone (604) 273-2266.
"The best way to maintain clean indoor air is through controlling
sources such as increasing the ventilation filter efficiency,
controlling room sources, and sustaining a good cleaning and
maintenance schedule. Wet wiping surfaces and using special vacuum
cleaning units can minimize dust loads during cleaning. If local
filtration is desired, the non-ozone-producing kind is recommended.
These generally contain a High Efficiency Particulate Air (HEPA)
filter for particulates and some type of carbon adsorber for odors."
Thanks, Jim! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 15 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, Is it better to microwave foods in tupperware containers with the
lid on or off? Some say keeping the lid on keeps in moisture and
heat, while others feel that leaving the lid off allows for easier
penetration of microwaves and faster heating? What do you think?
Lunch-boy
Dear Lunch-boy, According to Food Science Professor Joe Regenstein
(jmr9@Cornell.edu), the penetration of heat is minimally affected by
keeping the lid on your container. The bigger issue is steam, which
can lead to pressure that might pop the lid and splatter things.
Also, handling a product with lots of steam build-up can be a safety
hazard. Sounds like it's safer to leave the lid off. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 16 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, What happened to the online schedule for Hoyts 10?
Unsigned
Dear Movie Goer, That's a perfect question to post as a comment/suggestion to the
folks at CUinfo! You'll find an e-mail form for doing so at:
.
Uncle Eza Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 17 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, I am getting divorced and don't know how to actually go about doing
it. Is there legal advice available on campus somewhere for
students? Thanks.
Unsigned
Dear Looking for Legal Advice, You have one option on campus: The Legal Aid Clinic at the Law
School in G40 Myron Taylor Hall, 255-4196. You might also try Ithaca
Neighborhood Legal Services, 273-3666, or the New York State Bar
Association's Lawyer Referral Service at 1-800-432-3661.
These resources were just posted in "Dear Uncle Ezra" on February
26, 1998 (Q12). Sometimes searching the Uncle Ezra archives is the
fastest way to get information and benefit from other students'
questions.
Here's hoping your divorce is a new beginning for you. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 18 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, What are lawn balls? A group of us from the Cornell Outdoor
Education Program observed a relatively large (ca. 0.5 meter dia.)
green ball set upon a one meter high pedestal on the front lawn of a
house near Etna. One of our group members said it was a 'Lawn Ball'
and that it was sort of a symbol of prestige for a home owner.
Another in the group thought is had some religious significance. So
could you please clarify this matter for our COE group?
Unsigned
Dear COE Group Members, That's a variety of outdoor education probably not included in
your program description! To the best of my knowledge, lawn balls are
simply ornaments, akin to pink flamingos and horse hitching posts.
One of my contacts says they're more common in the Midwest than they
are here and that they often appear in front of ranch houses. If they
have a profound or religious signficance, I've never heard of it...but
I'm sure some reader will tell us! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 19 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, I am currently a sophomore. I feel like so much less of a "worthy"
person then when I first arrived at Cornell. Before, I was more
assertive, more confident, and able to work much better. But ever
since I came to Cornell, a string of events have totally shattered the
image of who I thought I was. I've never been a outgoing, extroverted
person, but I was confident. I knew what I wanted. I used to be able
to provide a intelligent answer when I was called on in class, but
now, I can never express what I mean clearly or come across
confidently. It's not as if I don't do well in class. I've gotten all A's and
-A's. In addition, I can't decide what I want to major in. Somedays
I think I know, but something happens and then I'm not so sure. I
thought I was supposed to grow as a person in college, but I feel that
I've become even less the person I was before. I often feel insecure. What can I do to gain back some of the self-confidence I lost? I
just don't feel like I'm growing intellectually. My ability to
communicate with others coherently is even worse than before. Often I
sound nervous and insecure while my sentences are fragmented or don't
come out right. If someone asks me for an opinion, I might be able to
express one, but I can't back it up. I feel like my mind isn't as
sharp as it used to be. Is intellectual maturity something I can
develop? Will things get better when I'm older? How can I be more
decisive, more assertive, a better communicator? Thank you.
Unsigned
Dear Struggling Student, It sounds as though your self-esteem has, indeed, taken a
beating. Cornell can be a difficult adjustment for many students who
were at the top of their high school classes. Once at Cornell, you're
in an academic setting where most people have arrived with great
intellectual confidence but may develop different comfort levels when
speaking in large groups or responding to challenging professors and
classmates in a highly competitive environment.
This is a fairly common experience for men and women in adjusting
to college, but some research bears out that women in particular lose
confidence in the classroom from junior high school on. You don't
mention your gender, but if you're interested in this research and
some solutions specific to young women, try reading Carol Gilligan's
work; WOMEN'S WAYS OF KNOWING by Belenky et al; or recent publications
of the American Association of University Women, such as GIRLS IN THE
MIDDLE: WORKING TO SUCCEED IN SCHOOL.
Set up some successes for yourself: Choose a class in which
you're relatively comfortable speaking, and prepare thoroughly for a
specific topic on the syllabus that is particularly interesting to
you. This preparation will help you feel enthusiastic about
participating in the class and will give you clear, genuine comments
to offer. Make your comments short and to the point so you don't feel
as though you lose your focus when you start talking.
Discuss your concerns with a professor or TA you trust, asking
her/him for some feedback and pointers. S/he in turn may be able to
reinforce you in more positive ways during class.
Look into taking some public-speaking classes. Comb the Cornell
COURSES OF STUDY for communication classes that offer opportunities to
work on speaking clearly and confidently.
This is a great issue to discuss with an EARS counselor (see the
pointer to Personal Counseling Services on the "Dear Uncle Ezra" web
page) who can help you identify why you don't feel confident (even
though your grades are outstanding) and explore other issues that may
be inhibiting your participation in class.
Seek some solutions soon. Prolonged self-doubt can take a toll
on your overall sense of well-being, and I imagine you'll find you're
not alone. Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 20 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Slightly Perturbed, Writing to "Dear Uncle Ezra" is a good way to cut through some of
that red tape. I shared your letter with Diane Sempler, Manager of
the ResNet and Campus Data and Telecommunications Service Teams, and
she replies: "You are correct that the ResNet service and the
EZ-remote service are not handled by the same individuals, which
occasionally causes unfortunate situations. The EZ-remote service
does require the user to sign up via an application, which does state
that the service has to be discontinued by the subscriber. However, I
do understand why the services would appear to be associated.
"If you would contact me directly at (dms4@cornell.edu or
255-5570), I will verify that your EZ-remote high-speed service was
not used last semester and issue you the appropriate credit. We are
currently evaluating the EZ-remote high service for students and these
changes should help eliminate any future situations of this kind from
occuring."
Thanks, Diane! Uncle Ezra - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Question 21 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Dear Uncle Ezra, Is there any (public) transportation to get from Cornell to the
Carousel Mall in Syracuse?? How much is it and how long does it take?
Unsigned
Dear Syracuse Bound, Public transportation won't take you directly to Carousel Mall,
but a combination of a Trailways bus (or the Airline Limosine Service)
and a cab ride will get you there. You'll find times, prices, and
phone numbers in a series of letters on this topic from last fall:
Q03 in the 9/30/97 "Dear Uncle Ezra" posting, Q06 in the 10/7/97
posting, and Q01 in the 10/14/97 posting. From the amount of interest
Cornell students seem to have in Carousel Mall, I imagine you can also
talk a group of friends into traveling up by car. Uncle Ezra |